Comments on: How Men Handle Relationships http://www.jonathanfun.com/2010/01/how-men-handle-relationships/ The World According to Me. Wed, 04 Jan 2012 20:16:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: jonathan http://www.jonathanfun.com/2010/01/how-men-handle-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-305 jonathan Mon, 01 Feb 2010 11:18:55 +0000 http://www.jonathanfun.com/?p=738#comment-305 Good point there Janice. Can't agree more. This is by far the longest comment I have ever received in my blog :-) Good point there Janice. Can’t agree more.

This is by far the longest comment I have ever received in my blog :-)

]]> By: Janice http://www.jonathanfun.com/2010/01/how-men-handle-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-298 Janice Mon, 01 Feb 2010 09:38:54 +0000 http://www.jonathanfun.com/?p=738#comment-298 Dude! It works both ways man! Imagine if a girl you just met did that to you. How would you feel if the tables were turned around? I don't think its a gender thing. Its an individual thing. Bottomline: 1)How confident/insecure are you? 2)How mature are you? 3)What's your EQ (Emotional Intelligence Quotient)? If a person is not ready to be in a healthy relationship, it shows... We all bring our baggages into into relationships... If you have alot of baggages, you scare healthier people away...relationships wise... Think about all the unwanted attention you have received which made you uncomfortable... So, rather than point fingers and push blame and sucking the lifeblood of others by dragging them into our pit hole of needs and insecurities, I think we should all approach relationships by focusing on working on ourselves to make sure we become someone the guy/girl of our dreams can't wait to be with and spend time with....whoever he/she may be... Instead of targeting who our dream partner should be, work on BECOMING a dream partner... The right one will come eventually... What say you? Dude!
It works both ways man!
Imagine if a girl you just met did that to you. How would you feel if the tables were turned around?
I don’t think its a gender thing. Its an individual thing.

Bottomline:
1)How confident/insecure are you?
2)How mature are you?
3)What’s your EQ (Emotional Intelligence Quotient)?

If a person is not ready to be in a healthy relationship, it shows…

We all bring our baggages into into relationships…

If you have alot of baggages, you scare healthier people away…relationships wise…
Think about all the unwanted attention you have received which made you uncomfortable…

So, rather than point fingers and push blame and sucking the lifeblood of others by dragging them into our pit hole of needs and insecurities, I think we should all approach relationships by focusing on working on ourselves to make sure we become someone the guy/girl of our dreams can’t wait to be with and spend time with….whoever he/she may be…

Instead of targeting who our dream partner should be, work on BECOMING a dream partner…

The right one will come eventually…

What say you?

]]> By: Hvitur http://www.jonathanfun.com/2010/01/how-men-handle-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-291 Hvitur Mon, 25 Jan 2010 02:06:54 +0000 http://www.jonathanfun.com/?p=738#comment-291 B'awww, poor dude. But even if there's a reason for it, even if girls try to understand, in the end, guys still have to learn to give space. It's hard to be in love when you're irritated all the time. ;D B’awww, poor dude. But even if there’s a reason for it, even if girls try to understand, in the end, guys still have to learn to give space. It’s hard to be in love when you’re irritated all the time. ;D

]]> By: Timothy http://www.jonathanfun.com/2010/01/how-men-handle-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-287 Timothy Sat, 23 Jan 2010 10:15:54 +0000 http://www.jonathanfun.com/?p=738#comment-287 Actually..if u ask me..u don't need to UNDERSTAND a women....U just have to LOVE them......because trying to understand them is an endless mystery bro......they are not born to be logical as us.....they are more connected to their emotions than us guys.....and.....emotions are unpredictable :-) >>>>Just my opinion....do correct me if im wrong.... Actually..if u ask me..u don’t need to UNDERSTAND a women….U just have to LOVE them……because trying to understand them is an endless mystery bro……they are not born to be logical as us…..they are more connected to their emotions than us guys…..and…..emotions are unpredictable :-)

>>>>Just my opinion….do correct me if im wrong….

]]> By: jonathan http://www.jonathanfun.com/2010/01/how-men-handle-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-286 jonathan Sat, 23 Jan 2010 10:13:36 +0000 http://www.jonathanfun.com/?p=738#comment-286 I do agree with you to a certain extent. However in today's modern world where women and men are already on par, is it not fair to say that men should also start expecting women to reciprocate in the same way women have been expecting men to? IMHO, I do agree that men should contribute more so much so that a woman will know that he would die for her. However it will be helpful to the relationship if women would understand men and abide by their ways the same way they are expected to abide by the former. SOME men are selfish. SOME men are not selfish. :-) I do agree with you to a certain extent. However in today’s modern world where women and men are already on par, is it not fair to say that men should also start expecting women to reciprocate in the same way women have been expecting men to?

IMHO, I do agree that men should contribute more so much so that a woman will know that he would die for her. However it will be helpful to the relationship if women would understand men and abide by their ways the same way they are expected to abide by the former.

SOME men are selfish.
SOME men are not selfish.

:-)

]]> By: Hillary http://www.jonathanfun.com/2010/01/how-men-handle-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-285 Hillary Sat, 23 Jan 2010 07:10:35 +0000 http://www.jonathanfun.com/?p=738#comment-285 It's a simple thing, to love a woman so much that you would die for her. But men are too selfish to do it. I disagree with almost all your points. SOME women prefer more space. SOME women prefer less space. To love a woman is to be willing to know it and abide by it. It’s a simple thing, to love a woman so much that you would die for her.

But men are too selfish to do it.

I disagree with almost all your points.

SOME women prefer more space.
SOME women prefer less space.

To love a woman is to be willing to know it and abide by it.

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